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Verbally Harassed

Recently, few like a month or two ago one of my mother’s cousins started stalking me on facebook. Then randomly he decided to call me like 6 or 7 times. After, that finally when I responded to his call he verbally harassed me. He inappropriately said hey you are always angry because you are single. Why don’t you get married or do you already have a boyfriend? my respond was like who the hell are you to ask me that question?? and then he was like oh why don’t you marry me I will give you a back massage and foot massage. When he said that to me I was like WTF do you not have a sister or a mother at your home?? how would you feel if someone said that to your mother or one of your sisters?? and then I was like why don’t you say it again. After, I said that he said oh you liked it so much?? and I was like yes you say it again and I will record you and report you to Karachi Police Department for verbal harassment. When I said that he was like what wrong did I say?? and I was like WTF you don’t think that what you said to me was wrong?? and then he said NO. After that I cursed at him like a mad woman and told him just mock my words if you even think of making me look bad in the family I will destroy you and you have no idea what I am capable of doing to people who verbally, psychologically, physically, and emotionally abuse. harass, assault, and rape women. Them I just can’t stand those men OMG I have no words how much I HATE such MAN.

BUT, luckily after that recently I told my mother and she actually for ones believed me that I wasn’t wrong. She also told me I am proud of you that you said that to him and got rid of him since he is useless. I am just glad for ones my mother supported me in my life. This cousin of my mother is nearly 50 years old and he acts like he is so kool or all that. He is an old perverted him who just needs to get a life. I am just really angry that why am I still allowing this to get to my head. I cry when I go through even verbally harassment but then I get up and tell myself why should I play the victim card here. Most of my mom’s cousins from her all her maternal aunts’ sides are just OMG I have no words like bad and they also think they are all that. PLUS, none of them are worth my time but I guess I am just writing this blog in order to get this out of my system and release on the negative energy I am HOLDING on too.

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Welcome to Alia Khan’s life and professional coaching and mentoring page. A 37-year-old woman who is working on her undergraduate degree in Psychology with a Business Management minor as well as now she is a certified life coach, with a mission to inspire individuals with a language learning disability (LLD) and who is associated with someone who has a language learning disability (LLD) be the best they can be. Even those dealing with a low self-esteem level and low self-confidence level. I can speak from personal experience since I have LLD. I have suffered from it my whole life not knowing why I couldn't read and write. Thus, my family and relatives always thought I was bad, rude, and making excuses not understanding that my neuro pathways work slightly different from the average brain as well as my brain is wired slightly differently due to hypoxia. This simply just means I did not get enough oxygen to my brain during my birth, which is no one's fault. Thus, the left side of my brain has brain damage. Ones I learned what my learning style was I actually gained a level of self-confidence. Plus, in my native culture, they have no awareness of how dyslexia affects an individual. I don't blame them for bullying me I blame their lack of awareness of neuropsychology. I dedicate my coaching business to my mom's teachings she has always helped and taught people to be better individuals. I owe my education to her since she encouraged me to aim for the sky and not settle for less. I help individuals with language learning disabilities (LLD) gain high self-esteem and confidence level, and professional coaching. The followers and clients will get free resources and videos every week as well as motivational affirmations. Thank you all so much for liking my Facebook page. https://www.facebook.com/UniversalJourneyAcademyLLC/ you can even contact me on my business line on WhatsApp: 1-818-213-1358 if you need immediate support.