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First World Problems VS Third World Problems

What is a first world problem? a first world problem is the WIFI not working.

What is a third world problem? a third world problem is not having proper food, medical care, clothing, and education.

In my case, even though I am living in a first world my family is still verbally abusing me as if I am living in a third world. I appreciate every meal since I don’t have the security of having a 2nd meal since my brother says that he wants me out of this house. I am not allowed to go to see my doctor since my brother rather have me die. He thinks if I go to the doctor I will get COVID even though he himself goes to the doctor for his daughter’s check up. I really appreciate that at least I have proper clothing since with my family I never know when they would take my clothes away from me. I had to fight for my education since my dad told me my education is a piece of shit, and that I am a piece of shit, he also said I only deserve to be raped killed murder assaulted and gang raped and that I only deserve to go have kids with a black man. NOW, I sometimes ponder upon my situation if I am living in a first world or a third world.

I wish I could tell him that what he is doing to me that I wish it upon his daughter but then what would be the difference between him and me?? if I am equally dropping to his level and being just as crude as him. I am just glad that his daughter has a better mother then mine and I know if he tries to hurt his daughter his wife will stand up and show him the door.

A guy who can treat his mother and sister like trash can treat anyone like trash even his wife and daughter. I sometimes when sitting in my room can hear him yelling and cursing at his wife. As well as, I have heard her tell him don’t talk to me that rudely. This clearly shows that I am right if a man can abuse his mother and sister he can even abuse his wife and daughter. God bless his wife and daughter, I almost wanna tell his wife “I told you so” don’t marry him. I had asked her before they got married you are so amazing what did you see in him?? and she at that time told me he is nice. I just thought that was funny and had laughed secretly since I grew up with him. Thus, I know him much better than anyone else can know him. Ironically, even my step mother had told me I wish I had asked you before I married your dad since I would have never married your dad if I had known about how verbally abusive he is as a person.

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Welcome to Alia Khan’s life and professional coaching and mentoring page. A 37-year-old woman who is working on her undergraduate degree in Psychology with a Business Management minor as well as now she is a certified life coach, with a mission to inspire individuals with a language learning disability (LLD) and who is associated with someone who has a language learning disability (LLD) be the best they can be. Even those dealing with a low self-esteem level and low self-confidence level. I can speak from personal experience since I have LLD. I have suffered from it my whole life not knowing why I couldn't read and write. Thus, my family and relatives always thought I was bad, rude, and making excuses not understanding that my neuro pathways work slightly different from the average brain as well as my brain is wired slightly differently due to hypoxia. This simply just means I did not get enough oxygen to my brain during my birth, which is no one's fault. Thus, the left side of my brain has brain damage. Ones I learned what my learning style was I actually gained a level of self-confidence. Plus, in my native culture, they have no awareness of how dyslexia affects an individual. I don't blame them for bullying me I blame their lack of awareness of neuropsychology. I dedicate my coaching business to my mom's teachings she has always helped and taught people to be better individuals. I owe my education to her since she encouraged me to aim for the sky and not settle for less. I help individuals with language learning disabilities (LLD) gain high self-esteem and confidence level, and professional coaching. The followers and clients will get free resources and videos every week as well as motivational affirmations. Thank you all so much for liking my Facebook page. https://www.facebook.com/UniversalJourneyAcademyLLC/ you can even contact me on my business line on WhatsApp: 1-818-213-1358 if you need immediate support.